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Martha Osowski's avatar

Loved this post Sabrina! And now I want to visit New Forest! 😀 Thank you for writing about the urge to dream about living somewhere else even when you’re happy being where you are...it’s a bit of a conundrum, but I’ve done that for years too and gotten lots of enjoyment out of it. Plus it’s fun in a different way to visit a place and appreciate it for what it is, but know that you wouldn’t want to live there.

So happy that you both had such a fun birthday weekend!

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

I'm delighted to hear you have that dream habit too! It is an interesting way to travel, I agree! And don't worry-we were thinking about you two when we were in the New Forest and how we might incorporate it into your visit! ;)

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Amy Rabon's avatar

Happy Birthday, Pete! It all sounds magical.

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

Thanks Amy! It was!

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Patricia Schreiner's avatar

Are you going back to see the snowdrops? You must!

I always think about what it would be like to live in a new place, imagining myself there. You’ve inspired me to plan a trip or two to explore new areas in Oregon, if I can only get Dave to agree to go!

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

Thanks Patti! I certainly hope we can go back - we may be travelling though!

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Martin Kohout's avatar

Love this one - and happy birthday, Pete! I too engage in the "could I live here?" game; now that I'm back in San Francisco after forty-plus years, and having moved four times in six years, I honestly hope I never move again, but it's still fun to imagine: Point Reyes Station? Lucca? Taos? Alnwick?

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

Thanks for your wishes to Pete-I'll pass them along! Glad to hear you're a "could I live here" person too! I'll certainly be delighted to visit you in all those places you mention, should you change your mind about San Francisco.

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Lisa's avatar

My attitude toward changing houses is similar to my attitude toward shopping: pick what you need, do a targeted search, purchase and then work with what you've got. No window shopping. No "what-ifs". Which is why I'm still surprised that we've found ourselves in a new home in Sebastopol after three DECADES in Ojai.

More importantly - happy birthday Pete!

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Sabrina Simpson's avatar

I'll pass along your wishes to Pete! Thanks, Lisa. And I think you answered your own question: You had a (new) need to be near your daughter, you found a place and you've worked with what you found to create a delightful place to call home. You've adjusted the sails as life required. Very inspiring! xx

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